As we hurtle toward the election, remember this…

At the end of September, I drove up to Lake Superior for a long weekend. The Ojibway/Anishinaabe, who lived in the region long before Europeans arrived, call it Gichigami. It is monumental, the lake cut and filled with water by volcanic action followed by glaciers millions of years ago. Along Superior’s southeastern shore, the cliffs of the Pictured …

Our Differences Are Magic

This column originally appeared in The Fulcrum. The definition of “civity” is “a culture of deliberately engaging in relationships of respect and empathy with others who are different.” The goal of Civity, the organization I co-founded, is building a civity culture. So why the emphasis on others, on people who are different? The short answer …

A Quilt Meditation on Democracy, Social Connection, & Civity

Fall has arrived here in Milwaukee, and the quilts have come out of the closet. My mother took up quilting later in life, and I have several of her quilts. One that is made of scraps from many different other projects is especially dear to me. I can identify dresses she wore and shirts she …

A Path Out of Polarization: The Strengthening Democracy Challenge and the Civity Storytelling Intervention

This article originally appeared on the listserv Beyond Intractability on June 12, 2023. Political polarization seems to be everywhere – in Washington DC, at statehouses around the nation, and in school board and other local government meetings.  It has come to appear so entrenched as to be a permanent part of the national landscape, inevitable …

Head to Heart

Some years ago, a common bumper sticker offered this advice: “Think Globally. Act Locally.” Never has this advice been more salient. Climate change is global, yet its effects are experienced locally. Some communities are hit by harder and more frequent storms, or drought, or wildfire. Some communities are seeing their fossil-fuel-based economies falter as energy …

The ‘Conversation Before the Conversation’

We live in a world of urgent and potentially existential challenges. There is a crisis-level lack of housing. Democracy is under siege. The effects of climate change are upon us. At Civity, we often describe the work we do as helping people have “the conversation before the conversation.” The conversation before the conversation about how …

The Power of ‘Power-With’

Civity is all about relationships – creating and strengthening bridging relationships that connect people who are different. These relationships form the relational infrastructure that underlies the civic infrastructure. Together, relational and civic infrastructure make it possible for communities to function. Civity relationships are relationships of respect and empathy. People “see” each other and share stories …

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